UPDATE:

Around 5 pm , I received an e-mail from my attorney, informing us that our profile was requested by the Birthmom and that it is now on it's way to her! I am very excited, but trying to keep my composure. My DH truly seems to be ok with the "issues" and wants to move forward. We need more medical info, and also, our budget needs to be hashed out but, so far, so good!
On another front, I called my Dad today and he actually told me that he felt that something was going on with us, before I mentioned a word about it. Of course, I got choked up a bit and just told him we were doing "research " on a situation and really didn't want to give up any details just yet. He was cool with that and just commented " I know my little girl too well!"
I also asked him about getting a loan from his credit union to help defray some of our expenses, and he asked me how much I needed. When I told him the amount I may need to fly out to meet the Birthmom "in the future" he said it was silly to go get a bank loan and he would take care of it for us! We will, of course pay him back, but it is such a relief to not have to worry about one part of this! My dad is a great American and my hero. I am blessed.